A drink of choice is more than just a beverage. It says something about you, and it will be one of the first things your date learns about you. To make the perfect first impression, you must manage what message your drink sends to your date.
These are some of the most common drinks, decoded.
When a guy orders a beer, it’s like “duh.” The majority of guys love beer. When a lady orders a beer on a date, it sends a signal of being laid back. Either she’s trying to be cool (which is so not cool) or she actually likes beer. If it’s the latter, be prepared for questions. For instance, I like lighter beers like lagers and hefeweizens. Knowing the actual name for the beer I prefer usually makes men melt.
A timeless drink like Gin and Tonic is classy, but can also seem a bit stale. A man with this drink looks rich, but like he doesn’t have the courage to try something new. When a woman orders this, it shouts ambiguity. The opinion on this drink is utter indifference, so maybe spice things up by substituting tonic for ginger ale.
This drink only has one connotation: this person wants to get fucked up. With four different kinds of liquor, there is no question that you will be feeling a buzz after your first drink. Don’t order this on a first date – you’ll look like an alcoholic, regardless of gender or body mass.
Aye, papi! Un margarita por favor? Admittedly, frozen drinks seeming with sugar are one of my favorite guilty pleasures. Unless you’re at a cantina or tortilla chips are present, this drink just doesn’t fit for a first date drink. Since a frozen drink doesn’t typically work on a first date, a mojito is a better alternative and still screams “I’m fun!”
If you actually know what’s in a martini, props to you. This gem is composed of gin and vermouth, and it turns “dirty” when you add olive juice. Martinis are sexy, I mean James Bond orders them so you know it’s good. A guy ordering this looks slightly feminine because of the signature glass, so gentlemen should opt for stemless.
Without a doubt, bitches love mojitos. Muddled mint is not only fun to say, it’s also refreshing. A woman who orders this wants to keep things light. She also isn’t afraid to let the bartender earn his tip, since this beverage takes considerably longer than the average pour. If a guy wants one of these and you’re not poolside, I’d say that’s a red metrosexual alert. The mojito remains a strictly female drink, at least one date number one.
A classic mix of rum and coke is a bar staple, but not ideal for a first date. Rum smells, and if you are drinking it you will smell too. This can be a major turn off for your date, especially if they don’t care for the taste or odor of rum You’ve been warned, and note that clear rum is not nearly as smelling.
A man with scotch is refined like Ron Burgundy. While this liquor is usually reserved for guy gatherings, a solo stud with a scotch seems upscale. A woman, with scotch just looks confused, like she thought it would be sweeter. If you order this as a lady, be sure to know the difference between Brandy and Cognac, lest you look like a phony.
Are you out of college? Do you plan on driving home? If the answer to one of these was yes, you should not order a shot. If someone offers you one, the socially acceptable thing to do is take it out of their hand then pretend to drink it with everyone before setting it on the bar or a neighboring table.
Requesting this cocktail begs to be uncomplicated. No bartender can mess up this drink, and every location will have it. At a club this is what I order because when I have to yell it over the bass, I know the bartender won’t question me. It’s simple enough that a guy can order it without looking lame, and basic enough that a girl can enjoy it as well.
You’re a little tired but you still want to drink with everyone, so you order a vodka Red Bull to balance the depressant of alcohol. It’s understandable, but also really, really unhealthy. Caffeine is also a laxative. Perhaps in a room full of frat bros, this drink has a certain appeal. With that said, frat guys are usually assholes, no pun intended.
As a time-honored favorite of women trying to lose three pounds, vodka soda is the ultimate skinny girl cocktail. It’s mundane, but shows a certain understanding of alcohol. Guys choose this if they have little imagination, and girls will go for it if they think they’re fat.
As far as I’m concerned, wine is the only appropriate alcohol to order at a restaurant, especially on a first date. Skip the specialty cocktails and order a Malbec. Any woman with half a brain should know what her favorite wine is because it’s the easiest way to get drunk with family and avoid looking like an alcoholic. Knowing about wine is an excellent conversation starter, and can easily bridge the age gap and make you look hella sophisticated.
Understanding what your drink says without speaking will give you an edge in dating. So just order the vino and don’t forget to put your pinky out.