Your experience with WhatsYourPrice.com starts with filling out a profile about yourself, who you'd like to meet and what you expect on a first date. In order to use the website, you must have an approved profile, and at least one approve photo of yourself.
Once you find the people you'd like to date, ask them out by making an offer. If you're a generous user, name the price you're willing to pay for the first date. And, if you're an attractive user, name the price you want to get paid for the first date. Our offer negotiating system will allow you to accept an offer, reject an offer, or counter with a different price.
Once an offer is accepted, you're ready to plan the date. Simply write a message to schedule a time and place for your first date. It's simple and it's fun!
After you've accepted an offer for a first date, it's time to plan and schedule the first date. You may want to check out some of our first date ideas, but do try to be creative. The next thing you may be wondering is how does a generous user of the website go about paying an attractive user for the first date. Here are some general etiquette and rules regarding Do's and Don'ts.
* DO NOT pay or ask anyone for payment prior to meeting for a date
* If someone asks you to send money by Western Union, report them immediately
* Generous members are expected to pay for the date (there's no going dutch here)
* Our advice: Pay 50% of the date at the start of the date, and 50% at the end
* DO NOT accept personal checks or cashier's checks - there's just too much fraud
* CASH is king, and pay only when you meet your date in person
Visit the zoo or aquarium, the animals will give you lots to talk about. But don't over focus on the animals. Keep the eye contact and body language strong. This is about the two of you staying curious about each other not the environment.
If you need to go to the mall to pick out a new tie anyway, invite her along and maybe get a hot pretzel while you are there. Keeping it simple and low pressure is the only way to go on a first date.
Find a nice local spot, and go for a picnic. Keep the menu simple and easy to manage. Eating with your hands can be liberating and fun but an awkward mess is not sexy.
Go hiking, there's nothing like the great outdoors. Be sure to choose a day when there will be lots of other hikers and reassure her of this upon invite. Putting a woman's need for security at the top of your dating priority list is key to success with women. Having other hikers around reduces awkwardness and will give you a chance to showcase how friendly and social you are by engaging others with simple greetings along the trail. "Hello, great day huh?" "Your dog is so cute." "what brand of hiking boots are those?"
Spend the afternoon together at a local flea market. This is a mecca for conversation starters. The items you come across will always bring up memories that will help you get to know each other. Listen with care and respond in the moment rather than trying to script in your mind what you say next while the other is speaking. Listen, breathe and respond accordingly or with a new topic altogether to mix it up now and then. Taking a deliberate pause in conversation will convey thoughtfulness and will signal your date that you have depth and self control.
First dates/meetings are about getting to know each other without creating pressure that can kill possible attraction. Keeping it very casual and low to no budget is the only way to go for a first meeting. If you don't then you may risk an opportunity to display your true self as well as getting to know your date in a genuine way. There is always a sense of obligation and awkward pressure if a first meeting is over done and not focused on the two people involved. The value you bring to the experience is YOU not the setting or the amount you spend or is spent on you.